Today is Pride Month! Hope everyone has a good time at Pride events, from kinksters and young kids still figuring out their sexuality!
I’m a femme nonbinary writer from the East Coast of America! I found out I was nonbinary last year actually. I’m eternally grateful to have a loving family who supports me for me, my friends, and my 2 lovely partners. ❤
Just a little reminder that I will not be tolerating ANY sort of discourse during this time period, including flag discourse, LGB without the T kink at pride.
Ronald McDonald DeSantis has already age restricted Megaplex using his godforsaken adult performance laws, and Florida is rapidly slowly turning into a breeding ground for queer genocide.
So I’m going to make my stances clear.
THERE IS NO LGB WITHOUT THE TQ. WE’RE ALL IN THIS TOGETHER, YOU TRANSPHOBIC SACKS OF SHIT. If you support this rhetoric, block me immediately. I will not be friends with garbage.
KINK BELONGS IN PRIDE, however we should ABSOLUTELY make spaces for LGBTQ+ minors still learning about themselves.
No rice, spice, chocolate, or curry? BITCH WE AIN’T GOT THE TIME FOR RACISM.WE. ARE. DYING.
As much as I don’t like Megaplex’s charity before they finally stopped partnering with them, I highly suggest that if you’re gonna go there, have an amazing time and be absolutely queer. Make these shitbags shake in fear. Don’t stop at Megaplex either, any furry convention or any furry gathering with your friends, make sure to be excessively queer and free.
Because only then will we be able to push back against the fascists.
BE LOUD. BE QUEER. BE FREE!
Sorry for the lack of posts, I’ve been chilling with some friends lately and getting myself together. I’m going to be working on a Twine project based of my fursona’s lore so please do stay tuned for it!
Have a good day! And have a good, jolly, Pride Month!
Personally, I value friends who I can joke and have fun with and also be serious and be there for me when I need it the most. Because life is too short to worry endlessly on the world’s many issues.
I will do everything in my power to make sure my country protects trans kids, but sometimes the bullshit is just too much for one day.
CW: S3xual Assault/R4pe, grooming, other incredibly nasty things
Note: I will be referring to Kitkat/Kets with they/he pronouns due to them being nonbinary and me unable to find what his pronouns are set by on any of the platforms.
Note #2: Some details are going to be incredibly fuzzy due to Kitkat’s original callout being taken down. I only have Momo’s callout to work off with. If anyone has a copy of Kitkat’s original callout on Skye Cabbit, please send it to my Twitter, @CheesyGabite. Thank you!
On April 18, 2023, a callout post on KitKat Cabbit/Kets Fox was posted to Twitter by user MomoTheGoatsky, in collaboration of other victims of his abuse and testimonies.
Momo themselves claimed knowing Kets since high school and claiming that they had always had anger issues and violent tempers that supposedly only gotten worse as time went on. Many people in the callout have described the following actions
Multiple accusations of sexual assault (targeting AFAB people in particular)
Multiple death threats and solicitation of murder (York Cabbit in particular having a knife put to their neck).
Aggressive, controlling behavior when dealing with Skye (Aiko Wolf’s testimony comes to mind)
Being sexually provocative when underage
Overall huge anger issues
This callout post brings Kitkat’s creditability in question, knowing his history of lying towards many people, especially in regards to their age. Another portion that didn’t help matters was Kitkat’s habits on cropping screenshots to remove the original context (see Section 14 of the callout post).
This blog post is simply one furry’s opinion on the whole situation as I do believe this situation is rather complex, since all of the grievances of Kets’ ordeals end up inevitably tying into the Skye fiasco of 2022, despite everyone’s best efforts to try and not tackle it.
The original callout
On May 14, 2022, Kitkat would post a callout on Twitter, alleging that Skye Cabbit, owner of Thunderhowl Studios, had groomed and dated him when they were 15 years old and Skye being 23 at the time. As of this post, this Google Doc has been taken down twice despite Kitkat’s best efforts of reposting, but he has claimed that Skye groomed them into being perfectly okay with having sexual intercourse and being in a relationship when they were only 15.
Another detail that I can recall is Skye taking an underage Kitkat to an 18+ convention with a false ID, according to twitter user @Yamishizen. How much of this situation was Kitkat being a forceful person is unknown. It’s not in my place to guess.
As such, I believe that Skye’s actions in this case are unforgiveable and she absolutely needs to accept that she had failed to put her foot down as the adult in the situation. Even if they were large and imposing, they should’ve used their position as the adult in the situation to cut ties before their relationship spiraled into the mess that she’s still paying for.
The KitKat Callout
A year later, Momo released their callout/beware on Kitkat Cabbit.
This callout puts everything about the Skye situation in a different perspective as the incidents happened around the time Kitkat was in Redstormfursuits Studios, a collaboration between them and Skye and was in a “relationship” with her. What was once a simple case of grooming from Skye became much more complex and messy as the victim turned out to have a lot more skeletons in their closet than she had.
One of the victims of Kitkat’s sexual assault spree was ThuunderBEAST, in MFF 2017 where they held the individual down and forcibly shoved a dildo into their throat. Without Thuunder’s explicit consent. In the same callout from 2018, Thuunder has expressed this to another individual who also claims that Kitkat had been making sexual moves on them since BLFC 2017.
If you wish to read more accounts of Kitkat’s history of sexual assault, then I implore you to read Sections 4 and 8 as these testimonies are from multiple people who had to experience such trauma from one person who the community once thought was a simple, clear-cut victim of grooming.
Another compliant from Kitkat was his poor understanding of being in a relationship or not
Aside from the gross shit he pulled on multiple people (and his fetish for trans masculine people, yuck), multiple commissioners for RedstormFursuits had come out to say not only was Kitkat bad at keeping their hands to themselves, but they also had crappy work ethic.
Section 10 has Thuunder’s original callout on Kitkat comparing the work done at RedstormFursuits between the original two owners before the split; Skye has clearly shown more effort in her work as opposed to the lazy Kitkat who had only made around 5 pieces of small fursuit parts in the company.
However, this poor work ethic has only continued when he started Furever Studios. As one commissioner put it,
Commissioned him for a fursuit a little over a year ago, he gave me a completion date of like 6 months, then repeatedly made excuses pushing it later and later. he kept attending conventions and furmeets and taking new commissions, and pushing mine later and later. After a year passed, I told him I wanted to get a refund and he said he’d have it done in a month. I said OKAY fine, and gave him the chance to follow throu. ended up being like 3 months but he did finish the suit. I bought a partial fursuit and it was completed in 2021. jaw doesn’t really move, but its super comfy.
Anon Cabbit, from “Callout/Beware of KitKat Cabbit”
There’s a multitude of shit that Kitkat has done but I don’t want to rip the complete document and steal it, so once again, I implore you to read through the whole thing to get a full picture.
Should you buy a fursuit from either of them?
If you want my honest opinion, you shouldn’t.
As much as I believe that both parties can change from this and become better people, it’s far too early to simply forgive them and buy their fursuits.
Kitkat needs therapy in order to truly understand how deeply he had ruined some of their victims’ lives with their actions. And Skye needs to accept the fact that she had screwed up immensely when she first had sex with Kitkat and take responsibility for it, even if her victim turned out to be an even worse person.
As the image on the blog post says, this is a case of trash vs garbage. Both parties have committed horrible actions.
If you don’t care and wish to pursue them for your fursuit, then I’m not going to stop you. But be warned you will be labelled as a supporter of their actions.
To those who enjoy the Thunderhowl style but don’t wish to order from a groomer or a serial rapist… thankfully, there’s someone who can do it!
I highly suggest you reach out to Aiko Wolf, the ex(?) of Skye Cabbit. In between making stuff for Sad Dog Club, he makes fursuits as well and he can emulate the style pretty well.
Since Aiko has been laid off from his full time job, he has taken to pursue Furesh full time. Meaning you’re likely to get a slot in if you wish to have a suit with the style!
Conclusion
This was a tough blog post to write, in all honesty. Not just because I don’t enjoy getting into the nitty gritty of furry drama, but also due to life getting in the way of stuff.
This is my first blog post, and I hope I can continue writing about furry stuff because I do legitimately enjoy the community, as introverted as I am. If you have anything to help bolster this post, please do send it my way on my Twitter.